Whatever Happened

What happened to discretion? I guess it has become a lost art. What happened to the days where what went on behind closed doors stayed behind closed doors? I always believed the best thing about being in a relationship was having that person by your side you were meant to grow with. I thought it was about spending your life with your best friend, your soul mate. What about two souls connecting, becoming one in God's eyes? When did relationships diminish in value to something you brag or boast about like some kind of cheap, gaudy possession? When did how big a freak a person is or what he or she will and won't do in the bedroom become a determining factor in whether a person is relationship worthy? Maybe I am naive but I thought the exciting part of relationships was learning about each other spiritually, emotionally and physically and discovering together what makes the other happy. I grew up believing that you supported each other through your struggles and that is how relationships grew stronger and better. What happened to appreciating the person and not the acts  of what a person can do for you. Anyone can be a freak. It doesn't take skill to display your body. Not everyone can touch someone, reach the very depths of a person's soul. Not everyone can comfort you with the mere thought of their smile. And guess what, Heaven forbid anything happens to where the physical relationship has to become a non factor, you won't care what he/she will or won't, can or can't do. None of that will matter. What will matter is if that person was able to love you unconditionally. What will matter is,"Has that person enriched your life mentally, emotionally and especially spiritually?" These are just my thoughts for the day so take from it what you will. I am out. Much love to all

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